In “Don’t Be Sad,” there is a remarkable part of the wisdom that denotes people’s obsession to dwell in the unfortunate past (funny how people always forget that their past has some wonderful moments) or too indulged in the uncertain future.
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They say experience is an important thing to guide you in life, but experience alone is not enough, which is why the past can’t completely tell you what you are or who you are in present. Sometimes, in the past, we went through something painful and people who are stuck aging in suffer and refusal to move on. The past should be the platform where we learn and improve, but for some who are obsessed with it, is a cage that has no door nor lock. You can be the product of your past decisions and actions, and since the name is ‘product’, we can’t really do anything about it but change and improve if the result is not desirable. They say,
“Being adult is not about making the right choices, but about dealing with the choices you made…”
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Yes, it’s important that we plan for the future, making sure that whatever we decide is something that will be worth it. But some people assume too much until it becomes part of their reality. Assumption is not planning, and is never healthy because assumption can be a seed for unnecessary ridiculousness. The future is what will happen, and is not a product yet, but still why some people treat it like it’s already in front of the eye? Even the next second is the closest future we have but we still can’t completely predict what will happen, so why breaking a sweat at something that you know has not happened yet? They say,
“No dreams come true until you wake up…”
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But, present is the product of the past.
Present is the plan for the future.
Present is what we see in the eye.
Present is present now…
So, hold present’s hand and take care of it, because you don’t want it to be the cycled product of unfortunate past, or the new horrible beginning of an ill-fated future…
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